Showing posts with label Joys of Parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Joys of Parenting. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Recent happenings & parenting truths


Our lives are all over the place right now. We have no idea if I'll have a job 6 weeks from now or even where we'll be living in 6 Months. It's hard for me to cope with this degree of uncertainty, having been a super type-A compulsive planner my entire life, but I'm slowly learning to adapt. Marrying a relaxed type-B with an often and indefinitely unpredictable schedule has been a good lesson in patience and going with the flow. When my work plans became just as up in the air as his -- if not more -- it really threw me for a loop. Fingers crossed I hear back from my boss regarding a remote position that may have just opened up...

Oh yeah, I think I forgot to mention (until the previous paragraph) that we won't be renewing our lease on January 1st. We have completely outgrown our 2 bedroom apartment. It looks like a toddler tornado tore through our entire living space on a daily basis and we've had to move Aurelia back into our room so they don't continue to wake each other up during the night. We are desperate for sleep and for our bedroom back. Now that Mike has decided that he'll be applying for positions for the Fall of 2015, we realize it's too long to stay here and deal with it. So apartment hunting we will go. On our wish list are at least 3 bedrooms, preferably 4 (or 3 + an office or finished basement) and in-unit laundry.

And now for something completely different.


This week's parenting truths:

The moment you're thinking about how brilliant your baby is will be the moment she shovels a handful of cat food into her mouth.

Having only one toilet in your house while potty training results in 1. many long minutes of frustration and 2. super awesome kegel muscle control.

Speculating about the possibility of {someday} having a baby brother or another baby sister around a 2 year old is a bad idea: "MOMMY I WANNA BABY BRUDDER!"

Okay, Carina. We'll get right on that ;)

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Sunday, June 30, 2013

Sleep strikes & how we're staying sane (mostly)


It's a tired parent's nightmare; the sleep strike. Carina went from sleeping soundly beginning at 7 PM to fussing and calling out until 9 PM or later most nights. Half of the time she wakes up Aurelia, and then we're all in for a rough night. To make matters worse, our infant alarm clock has been going off an hour earlier than usual (6 AM). And that means Carina is up then, too -- the joys of sharing a room.

We tried earlier naps. We tried a later bedtime. We tried skipping the nap...today, actually, and it didn't go so well. After a major meltdown at the mall, both girls fell asleep at 4:30 PM, and guess what? Carina's still awake now, at 9 PM, and she's letting us know that she's ANGRY. We're crossing our fingers that Aurelia is able to remain sleeping, but it doesn't look good. I think our next attempt to "take our evening back" will be buying room darkening shades. Any other ideas?

Motorola MBP41 Monitor
Something that has helped our sanity is having a video monitor. We bought one shortly after Aurelia was born and we like it, but it interferes with our wireless network and there's no warning that the battery is dying - it just shuts off. The week we were moving Aurelia into Carina's room, Motorola asked if we'd like to give their new Motorola MBP41 Wireless Video Baby Monitor a try. After hearing that the camera pans, tilts, and zooms from the parent unit, I thought it would be perfect to set up in between their cribs.

The 2.8" diagonal color LCD screen is clear and the color is bright during the day, and uses infrared night vision at night. Mike calls it the "spy cam" and loves that we can see the girls at any time. Aurelia is very quiet after naps and sometimes we would have no idea if she was awake if we weren't able to see her little eyes open on the monitor. Also, when we hear a little cough or call out at night, previously we would run in to check on them, but would often wake one of them up in the process. Now, we can just peek in on the monitor to see if they are okay or if they do actually need us.

Aside from the pan/tilt/zoom function, my favorite function is the 590 foot range. Mike and I can grab a glass of wine and sit out on the patio without worrying that we'll be too far or won't be able to hear the girls if they need us. We can even press the microphone button and tell them to go to sleep if they're up too late giggling ;) If you do get too far, an out-of-range alert sounds. There's also a low-battery alert; the parent unit doesn't just shut off (like our other monitor does). We've rarely gotten to this point, though, as the battery life is really good. We've never had issues leaving it unplugged from 7 PM until well after midnight. The only room for improvement I see is that when it isn't plugged in, the screen goes to sleep after a few minutes. I wish this were optional; I'd prefer it stay active.

Night vision (Left) - Daylight (Right) P.S. LOOK AT THOSE HAMHOCKS!
Other features include volume and brightness control, auto shut-off, a support stand, and a sound level indicator - the little circular lights at the top of the unit: green is quiet (shown), yellow is louder, and red is OMG BABY IS NOT HAPPY.

The monitor comes with a parent unit, one camera, a rechargeable battery pack for the parent unit, and 2 wall power adapters. When we move into a house (hopefully in the next year - more on our plans next week!) we plan on buying another camera so we'll have one in each of the girls
 rooms. You can pair up to 4 cameras (sold separately) with the parent unit.

For now, though, putting our one camera in between both cribs is working out really well. After I check on Aurelia (we leave it aimed at her most of the time), I pan to Carina's crib. Check this out in action, and sorry for the blurriness...video camera skillz - I got none:


The Motorola MBP41 Video Monitor is exclusive to Babies R' Us and has saved us from many a run across the house to check on one of the girls. It gives me peace of mind and I like being able to look over and see their sweet faces at any time ;)

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Thursday, January 17, 2013

Mom Skills I've Mastered


Having two kids under the age of 2 for a few months was not ever always a walk in the park. Attempting to meet the needs of two little ones -- in addition to your own -- can be mentally and physically exhausting.

But? There are obvious plus sides, of course...like basking in sweet sweet baby snuggles and toddler hugs simultaneously. And the fact that they will eventually (hopefully) be each other's BFFs {they better be!} There are some lesser known pluses as well. Namely, the awesome skillz that you'll develop that you didn't even know existed...

Things I've Mastered with 2 Under 2

1. Juggling baby while changing a diaper

When Aurelia was still a tiny newborn that refused to be put down, many of her naps were snug in the Moby wrap. It seemed like putting her in the wrap was the bat call for Carina to take an epic dump. I tried to lift her up to the changing table a few times but it just wasn't happening. So I broke out the changing pad from the diaper bag and managed to take care of it on the floor in front of me. Other than a few moments of Aurelia dangling precariously over Carina, it was a success. "Bye bye turds!" (as Carina says), and baby still asleep.

2. Silent dishwasher emptying

Aurelia is super sensitive to sound and even dishes clanking against each other can wake her up. I know that she'll have to learn to sleep through noise eventually, but for now? MOMMA NEEDS BABY TO NAP. Emptying the dishwasher takes twice as long as it used to because I opt for slow and silent over quick and loud, but I'm getting better at it. 

3. Nursing while cooking

Some days the little miss wants to eat constantly. Since Momma has to eat, too, breastfeeding while cooking/preparing food has become a necessity for me. Luckily, my nursing pillow can tighten around my body with Velcro so snugly that I am able to walk around in the kitchen and have one hand free to slather my bread with a giant glob of Nutella. I have also managed to make Macaroni and Cheese and Quesadillas (OMG I'm awesome!) all while nursing the babe.

4. One handed typing

When the wee one is sleeping on my chest, I often hop onto the computer to catch up on blogs or attempt to blog myself. More often than not, one arm is positioned under the baby leaving me with just one free hand with which to type. I've become a pro. I can churn out a couple of paragraphs in no time with only five fingers. This also comes in handy at nighttime when Momma's got a glass of wine in the other hand... ;)

5. Marathon peeing

The first few times I used the restroom when both kids were in the living room by themselves I would hear a loud, ominous THUD mid-stream. I'd have to shimmy out of the bathroom pants-down to make sure that Carina hadn't drop kicked the baby. I adapted to the situation and am now proud (proud? okay maybe not proud...embarrassed?) to admit that I can pee at lightning speed. No more leisurely bathroom breaks here when I'm home and both kids are awake.

I've even peed WITH the baby sleeping in the Ergo. ENVY ME.
If these were Olympic events I would totally win gold, yo. Definitely. What skills you never knew you needed have you developed since becoming a Mom?

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Thursday, October 25, 2012

The realities of having 2 under 2


Truth: having two children under the age of 2 is the best thing I've ever done. Some days are great.

Earlier this week I took both girls grocery shopping and to my surprise there wasn't a single tantrum or poopsplosion. Carina gave the baby kisses and "played" with her on the mat while I put all of the groceries away. Aurelia slept all afternoon and Carina played independently for a bit - giving me enough time to do 2 loads of laundry and empty and load the dishwasher. Afterwards, Carina snuggled up to me for story time and we played together. I managed to have dinner ready when Mike came home and even had a few minutes to blog. I felt like I accomplished so much. Both babes, and I, were happy and well rested.

"Baby kisses!"
Truth: it's also probably the hardest and most exhausting thing I've ever done. Some days are not so great.

Yesterday, my goals for the day of showering and making a nice dinner I found on Pinterest soon turned into merely changing my underwear and choosing which pizza delivery place from which to order. Aurelia wouldn't sleep or let me put her down and Carina kept tantruming and trying to stick her stuffed monkey in the baby's face and OMG IS THAT POOP IN MY HAIR? and what do you mean you won't be home before Carina's bedtime, husband? And then came an avalanche of spit up running down my cleavage. ::breathes into a paper bag:: A mountain of dishes in the sink, cat barf on the floor {wish I was joking}, and crap, I forgot to order that pizza. Get me a freaking drink. Seriously. Can this day have a do-over? Wait, no. I don't want to try again. I give up. And cry.

Time to knee baby in the head
As I sit here blogging with the baby attached to my boob {I feel like I've been nursing constantly today} after an evening of trying to keep Carina out of the trash can and stirring three pots/pans for dinner while trying to keep a pee leak in the Moby from spreading onto my clothing and chatting with Mike on the phone about when he'll be home, all simultaneously, I'm a bit tired. Clearly, today was also one of those rough days. 

At least I made dinner, right? Wrong. It was inedible. Damn you, Pinterest. I tried. Now where's that pizza delivery number...


Moms of 2+ I raise my glass {it's a very full one tonight} to you in solidarity. How are your days? Do you have more of the good or the crazy?

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Thursday, August 2, 2012

Parent Problems: Stuck


While I'm waddling around New York City this weekend, I'll be bringing you a couple posts I wrote that were published elsewhere!


Imagine this:

Who’s got the power?
The power to read.
Who answers the call for friends in need?


Super WHY!
Super WHY!
He’s the guy, he’s Super WHY!

...stuck in your head all day long. No matter what else you listen to, or try to focus on, it just won't.go.away.

Cooking breakfast? Adventure waits when you’re with Super WHY!
Going for a walk outside? Come along with the Super Readers
Taking a dump? Hip hip hooray, the super readers saved the day! 

As I'm writing this post I cannot, for the ever-loving LIFE of me, make it stop. This song might even be a contributing factor as to why I'm having difficulty falling asleep at night. It just plays on an infinite loop inside my head...

I would normally just turn it off or put on another TV show, but Carina is obsessed with it. When she first notices it is coming on, she squeals "WHY! WHY!" over and over again. And then she remains glued to the TV for the next 28 minutes. Other shows? She couldn't possibly care less. This is the only one she wants to watch.

I've tried distracting her with both Curious George and Clifford the Big Red Dog, but to no avail. Despite her love of dogs and monkeys, she scoffs at their feeble attempts to entertain her and demands "WHY!" I think I'm destined to sing myself to sleep with the Super Why theme or Alpha Pig's ABC song for the foreseeable future...

The things we endure for our children ;)


How about you; is there a TV theme song (or maybe a toy that plays music) that you can't seem to get out of your head? 


Originally published at These Four No More

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Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Yes I'm still sane & I hope this doesn't damage her for life - on leaving Carina


I've been a bit amused at the comments that I've been getting when I divulge that I'll be away from Carina overnight for the first time ever this week. I take the train into New York City on Thursday morning for BlogHer, and then will be taking the train to Philly on Sunday morning to meet up with her and Mike. From there we'll drive down to Virginia Beach for vacation with his family.

The responses have ranged from "OMG three whole days?!? Are you sure you won't psychologically damage her for life?" to "What? You haven't been away from her for a night yet and you're still sane?" Okay I'm exaggerating just a tad, but you get the idea. It's really interesting to hear how varied people's thoughts on leaving their little ones are.

Since quitting work last August (has it really almost been a year?) I haven't been away from her for longer than a couple hours, so it's safe to say that 72 hours will be like an eternity, relatively speaking. I know she'll be fine - in the very capable hands of a friend, Mike, and later my parents - but my heart aches thinking that at some point she'll call out, "Mommy! Mommy!" like she does so often and I won't be there to hug her, hold her, snuggle her. I'll miss her giggles, her smiles, and her sweet baby smell that still hasn't gone away.

I will for sure miss this face

Part of me is so excited to finally get some freedom. The other part? Feels like a horrible Mother for even admitting that.


When did you first leave your baby and for how long? Or haven't you yet? Did/do you have mixed emotions, too?

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Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Side effect of weaning: I'm in binky hell


Prior to weaning Carina, for the most part we restricted binky usage to naps, nighttime, and long car rides. We never had an issue with taking it out of her mouth when it was time for her to be done with it. Until now, of course.

Since she decided she no longer wanted to nurse, she has deemed binky her new best friend and wants it in her mouth round the clock. Try to take it out? Cue hysterical screaming fit. Hide it? She won't stop looking for that bad boy until she finds it herself - or you break down and give it back to her.

While she is only 18 Months and it certainly wouldn't be a big issue if we let her keep it for part of the day under normal circumstances, she WON'T FREAKING EAT when it's in. Failure to thrive + binky in mouth 24/7 = big, frustrating problem.

So today, we began day #1 of operation "binky stays in crib" because our tiny toddler needs to gain weight. So far? Lots of this:
And this:

Sidenote: No, these photos weren't taken today. I would be a cruel, cruel Mommy if I had taken pictures of her while in such utter distress. And? Those Cadbury Mini-Eggs in the back right corner of that bottom photo would definitely not have lasted this long past Easter ;)

So anyway, back to Binkygate: 2012. Needless to say, she has spent a lot of time in her crib today. Mike had some luck distracting her with dancing, and then her Super Why obsession paid off long enough for us to get dinner ready. Maybe we need to invest in a few new and exciting toys that will keep her mind off of her beloved binky's absence.

Did anyone experience something similar while weaning your little one from the binky? And/or what SUPER FUN toys can your toddler not get enough of lately? Momma needs all the help she can get, here. I almost gave in a few times today because I just couldn't handle the tears. And screaming. But mostly the screaming...I have quite the headache in its wake.

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Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Yep, that's a cheerio in your bra - Toddle Along Tuesday


Dear carefree well-rested pre-baby Melissa,

We're 18 months in and all three of us are still alive, so I guess that's good news, right? Might I suggest that you prepare yourself for the inevitability of the following...

...you will sustain bodily injury courtesy of the babe. Don't get scared, it really hasn't been that bad. Just a little {nipple} bite here and there, a swift kick to the {pregnant again} belly, a deep scratch due to a fingernail that I should have clipped last week. Mike has not been so fortunate, though. He has been poked in the eye (both closed and open), had fingers jammed up his nose, his lip pulled, his unmentionables stomped, and numerous body parts bitten. Go ahead; it's okay to smile and snicker at his expense.

...you will find strange things in even stranger places. Today I found a cheerio in my bra. I didn't give Carina cheerios today...and can't remember the last time I did. Where did it come from and how long had it been snuggling my boob?? These are the mysteries. I also found a magnetic letter "Y" in the bath tub and and puzzle pieces in her snack catcher. All you can do is laugh.

...you will actually get excited by diapers. No joke. Cloth diapers have become a bit of an obsession for me. So fluffy and colorful and cute. Who would ever guess that you would geek out over something in which your baby takes a dump? Speaking of deuce, you will get pooped on. Sorry. No avoiding it. And after while it won't even gross you out that much.

But despite getting hurt on a regular basis, having strange bra fellows, and being covered in #2, you will love more than you ever imagined. You will experience more joy than you ever thought possible. Even when you're elbows deep in poop (and that happens), one big toothy smile and a wobbly run towards you accompanied by a spirited "Mommy!" will erase any and all frustration that you're feeling.


P.S. OMG can someone please turn these pregnancy hormones off? I couldn't even write the paragraph above without crying.




My co-host for Toddle Along Tuesday this week is Jen from Home for Three and the topic is letter to your pre-baby self! What do you wish that you-now could tell yourself from years past? There are no rules here, except that you link up a relevant post (old or new) rather than your whole blog.

Next week's topic is summer fun! Share some photos or a post about anything fun you've done so far this summer, or something fun to come.

If you like advance notice for TAT, check out the bottom right of my blog - topics for the next couple months are listed. Would you like to submit a topic idea and/or volunteer to co-host one week? E-mail me!


P.S.S. Another question today! For those who participate regularly, do you like linking up on Tuesday mornings, or do you prefer Monday evenings? Way back when I posted TAT on Monday evenings. Just wondering what is better for you all :)

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Monday, March 26, 2012

Things We Actually Say

M and I have compiled a list of things we never thought we would say, yet have, while caring for our little one. Some of these are cut & pasted from Twitter, others are just famously {or infamously} remembered by us.

Carina, please eat your breakfast, not your crayons.

No, Carina, we don't put monkey in our hoo-ha. 

Carina, did you just leave a pee pee trail through the hallway?!?

We don't throw eggs at Daddy. 

No no no, no playing in the kitty litter.

Carina, we don't roll around in our poopy. 

Up to no good again, aren't we?

No, Carina, we don't eat rug.

Carina, we don't chew on the kitty's fur.

I NEED AN ADULT.

We don't go fishing in the dirty diaper pail. 

Kitty food doesn't taste very good, does it?

No, Carina, we don't put our mouth on the toilet seat. (!!!)


Okay, let's hear what you actually say ;)

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